Is it over?

8 Jan

Friday I had my last drain removed.  It was great.  I hardly felt this one when he pulled it out because it was placed after surgery, in their office.  So, the end that was in my body was not as long as the normal ones.  The doctor said everything was healing great.  He even lifted my restrictions.  I’ve been able to clean my house and cook again.  It is wonderful.  I had a little helper this weekend (a friend that has been staying with us on the weekends) so she did help me clean some on Saturday.  But, I still over did it and my arms ached all night while I was trying to sleep and my breast muscles were spasm-ing.  Is that a word?  

Sunday morning and evening I even made a fire in the wood stove and carried a few little pieces of wood in the house.  Kevan doesn’t want me carrying the normal size yet so he brought in the big ones.  It felt so good to do some normal chores.  I can’t wait until I can help him split wood again.  It is a chore we like to do together and as weird as it sounds….its fun.  lol!
Even though my restrictions were lifted I’m only supposed to lift 10 pounds.  Then, next week it will go up to 15 and so on.    The best is that I’m allowed to take bath’s now.  I have missed my nightly baths.  :o)  Also, I can sleep on my side now and she said I could try stomach sleeping in a few days.   I am a stomach sleeper and I have not slept on my stomach since April.  You do not realize how happy this makes me.  I thought I might not ever be able to sleep on my stomach again, but he thinks I shouldn’t have a problem.  I can’t wait to try.  Brings tears to my eyes just to think about it. 

Kevan was talking about me yesterday and I heard him say, “You wouldn’t believe what a difference it makes for Jayde to have the drains out.  I can tell she feels better and she even looks better.”  lol!  Even Kevan sees a difference.  When I was talking to the nurse I told her how sad I was that so much of the swelling is gone.  I told her I feel like I lost a size since I went home from surgery.  She said that everyone says that.  lol!  I tried on a few of my cute dresses and tank tops.  I think I’ll be happy with the size.  Not too big….not too small.  Just perfect.  :o)

Also, I wanted to mention how much faster my incisions are healing.  I’m not sure why this is, but they are way more healed than they were after my last surgery.  I’m putting Aquafor on them twice a day and massaging it in.  The massaging helps the scars to not be so raised and helps them heal faster.  I did this last time too.  

As I sit and think about how there really isn’t much left now.  I’ve been through the double mastectomy, the rounds of chemo and the reconstruction.  It is over.  I’m healed.  Praise God.  He healed me.  He walked with me through it all and I love him so much for it.  I’m so thankful for Him, for my family, my friends, everyone’s prayers….and for cancer.  Without the cancer I wouldn’t know what it is like to have to depend on God daily.  To cry out to him when I’m scared or when I’m lying in the floor sick.  To talk to him all throughout the day.  Of course, we are supposed to depend on him daily already, but I wasn’t consistent.  Cancer showed me how much better it can be if we just lean on Him for everything.

I am also thankful that it is over and I’m on this side of it.  All I have left now are the check-up appointments every 3 months.  It is a weird feeling.  I’m so glad that I am starting the New Year out healed and ready to get back to normal.  This is going to be a great year.  2013!  And…..even though it is over…..I will rely on Him.  Daily.  I hope and pray I do.

2 Responses to “Is it over?”

  1. Tiffany January 8, 2013 at 3:06 am #

    Thank you, Jesus, for answering our pleads to heal this precious woman! I'm so proud of you and how awesome your attitude has been portrayed to everyone, but also how real you have been. Everyone has seen Christ through you!

  2. Anonymous January 8, 2013 at 4:09 am #

    Amen, Sister!! Judy

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